Thursday, September 29, 2005
la-la-la
came by smth which was quite ponder-able.. wahahaa, wad stupid eng is that..LOL. my eng teacher will kill me for sure if she stumble upon this.. anyways, i was instantly hooked onto wad was registering into my brain while coming across this..
In life, we're seeking that special person who is right for us. But, you will come to realise that there's actually no right person, just different flavours of wrong. This is so because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. It isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons-your unsolvable problems- the ones that make you who you truly are- that you're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you are looking for. You are looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person, but the "right" wrong person--one you lovingly gaze upon and think, "you are that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way."
This really set me into deep thoughts.. i was thinking "wow, wad an oxymoron" but how true... the "right" wrong person... many a times, you will realise that life is not about finding the correct person, but someone you can love deeply and accept his everything be it postive or negative. no one is perfect and so, there's bound to have some flaws or shortcomings in the person you love wholeheartedly. sometimes, being wrong isn't really the issue. if you can accept the wrongness that you've witness, its alright ; alright in the sense that both parties can compromise or rather, give and take. For me, life has made me realise compromisation is essential. it proved to serve its purpose when an agreement has to be made which is fair to both. it may not always reach its level of effectiveness, but it definitely helps in a way or another. people make up of different characters need to compromise in order to derive at happiness. no one person is completely happy wif another, and so, by compromising, ppl learn to live with the other's flaw, not necessary happily but still, it helps. imagine if ppl refuse to compromise, they will realise they'll soon lose the one they love. and imagine, if you've found your lifelong mate but he/she has a part of him/her that you cannot tolerate and insist your own way of doing. wouldn't it be such a pity if both parties give each other up just bcos they cant reach a favourable agreement? maybe some of you out there don't know how hard/arduous it is to find someone whom u love deeply and one who in return reciprocate his/her feelings.. but to me, it's all so true, all so clear and vivid. i awaited for the happiness i have now for a toilsome 4 yrs. it's all so difficult. when i finally awaited, i told myself how blessed i am and that no matter wad, i will cherish this special one of mine. i went thru hell for the past yrs, acted as if im past caring about him, laugh my way thru each day though within me, sadness was overwhelming, and cried silently myself to slp occasionally. no one knows how i reali felt and gone through, maybe my bestie does. but other than her, i dont mention all of this to anyone. hai.. wad im trying to convey here is if u feel that you've found the one you want for life, try to accommodate to each other. if obstacles obstruct your way, dont give up easily. quitting will not solve the problem. learn not only to love, but also to cherish.
i've found mine. how about you?
8:22 PM
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